For Her

When you think "vacuum cleaner," do you think "sex toy"? Well, one company has created an attachment that turns your regular old vacuum cleaner into an "orgasm pleasure machine ." (Courtesy of World Sex News Daily ) You can take a look at the vacuum vibe here . The link even has a handy video.

Maybe it's just me, but a vacuum cleaner is probably the most un-sexy appliance I can think of. Then again, all household appliances are un-sexy. If they can figure out a way to create an attachment that hooks up to a washing machine, maybe I'd be interested.  

A recent conversation I had with a lover:

Him: I want you to initiate sex more often. 

Me: Really? I thought I do initiate it sometimes.

Him: A few times. But I'm usually the one who wants it.

Me: Hmmm...I didn't realize that. 

Him: It's always a turn-on when a woman initiates the action. I want you to reach for my cock and show me that you want it. Guys want to feel wanted, too. 

Great point. Ladies, don't make your man do all the work. Show him that you appreciate him, and seduce him when he doesn't expect it. Surprise him with a hot kiss, or just reach under his clothes for a squeeze. He will be so glad you took the initiative. 

I think this is one reason why public sex is such a popular fantasy. Even though the short clip is a little grainy, you can see the passion and intensity between the two. I'm sure the possibility of getting caught was part of the turn on.

If you're going to play in public, remember that cameras might be anywhere. If you care about your face possibly showing up on the internet, be careful.

With my friends, Wednesday night is known as "LOST night." If you're a fan of the show, you know what I mean. There are only a few episodes left in this season, and supposedly a lot of questions are supposed to get answered. I've never been a fan of the show. There's too much going on, and I don't like dealing with flashback upon flashback.

However, there is one reason I watch the show somtimes:

I thought Matthew Fox was "cute" in his "Party of Five" days. Now he blossomed to this dark, sexy hottie. I'm in lust. I'll tolerate a show I don't like just to get a glimpse of him. More pics are available from Matthew-Fox.net . 

I have a birthday coming up next month. A guy recently asked me what I wanted for my birthday. Do I dare tell him that this looks interesting?

I saw this collar while browsing Good Vibes. It's simple and gives a warm feeling to my inner submissive. What kind of things do you have on your secret shopping list? Anything that you wouldn't share to your mainstream friends?

Remember that May is Masturbation Month...something to keep in mind when you're on your next shopping trip. 

In addition to being a sex-positive, smut writer, I'm also a proud nerd and movie buff. I geek out for mainstream, indie, genre, and foreign films. If you like "Shaun of the Dead," we're automatically friends. So when Pajiba.com (one of my favorite sites in the world) came out with their 10 Sexiest People aka Celebrities You'd Like To Bang list, I was stoked. I knew their picks would satisfy both the eye-candy lover and the movie-lover. Their list did not disappoint and you can check it out here .

I have no problem with a list that includes Salma Hayek, Simon Pegg (of "Hot Fuzz" and "Shaun of the Dead", Jon Stewart, and Christian Bale. However, I'm not sure I'm really feeling their #1 pick but it's a great list.

From their list, I'd have to pick Ryan Gosling. I'm not a huge fan of his work, and I can't say I've seen "The Notebook." Yet, you have to give a nod to a man who can carry an on-screen kiss like this . Their live kiss on MTV is pretty hot as well.