For Her

While discussing fantasies with my lover, we talked about fantasies that we haven't tried before. I asked him if he liked bondage, and he said he'd never tried. I'm not a big fan of bondage. I enjoy the aesthetics of it, but I don't enjoy being tied up. I like having mobility when I'm having sex. 

I have been on the other end before. At an old flame's request, I tied him to a chair and had my way with him. I didn't think that I would be able to do it. It was our first time dabbling in bondage so it was an experiment. He enjoyed it a lot, and I had fun teasing him. I would grind against him, making him hard. I would tease him with my breasts in his face. I would touch him almost to the point of orgasm.

Later he said that I had a Domme spirit. Perhaps. I do know that I enjoyed the power trip. I wasn't physically aroused. It was all mental.  

Yes, I said Prince...aka the Artist was once the Artist formerly known as Prince. Now he's Prince again.

Happy birthday to the man in all his purple glory. He turns 49 today.

I've loved him since I was in elementary school. He exudes sensuality and raw sexuality. If you don't think he's hot as hell, then you haven't seen Purple Rain . He may not be able to act, but he can sing, dammit. Here is a live performance of Take Me with You from the Superdome, 1985.

Last weekend was the 2nd annual Feminist Porn Awards, sponsored by GoodForHer.com. What is "feminist porn"? According to Chanelle Galant, Goodforher.com's manager, it's porn that is "made by and for women." Not all porn has to be about the male-oriented fantasy. Awards like these recognize that women can appreciate and create porn. Women watch porn, too, so it's about time that women start making porn that we want to watch.

Here are a list of the winners , courtesy of Hotmoviesforher.com

I just bought "Eat Me, Drink Me ," the new album by Marilyn Manson. I'm surprised by how much I like it. I heard one song in a store, and I knew I had to get it. It's different from his previous goth/rock sound. Some of the album feels like metal, and a few songs even have a "pop" vibe.

I'm loving this song "Heart Shaped Glasses ." The video is super-hot, especially the first few minutes. I don't know if Manson and Evan Rachel Wood are actually having sex in the video, but they put on a good show. I think I like the song more after watching the video. I won't ruin it for you, but it's not for the sensitive viewer. If you're familiar with Manson's work, you know he likes to push the edge.

He said: How come you won't let me go down on  you? You don't like it?

Me: I do. Sometimes. 

He: then what's the problem? Whenever I try to go down, you get all nervous. You get self-conscious?

Me: Something like that.

He: Don't.

Me: I guess I wonder if you'll like doing it.

He: Do you like sucking me?

Me: Yes.

He: It's the same thing, silly. Just relax. Don't be self-conscious.

Me: I've never really been able to come from that before.

He: I'll take that as a challenge.

I relaxed, spread my legs, and let him do all the work. His lips and tongues worked wonders. Pretty soon I was thrashing on the bed, moaning, shaking, and having a great time. By the time I was finished, the back of my head was covered in tangled knots. I had been rubbing my head all over the pillows.

If you meet a guy with a magic tongue, it's a very fine thing. Sometimes you just have to relax and enjoy yourself. 

Here is a new set of pictures to start the week. One of my favorite things to do is to take a shower with my guy. Some mornings we shower together just to save time. On other occasions, we take our time with a long, hot shower. It's really erotic to run our soapy hands over each other. Of course he loves it when I wash his back.

I used to be really shy about taking a shower with someone. The first few times we showered together by candlelight. It made the mood more romantic. The soft lighting made me less self-concious about my body. Gradually I became more comfortable with my body. Now I don't care if we shower with the bright light on.

It's also fun to watch him in the shower while I'm doing my hair or applying my make-up. The semi-clear shower door shows just enough to have me peeking over my shoulder.